Published in Human Parts·PinnedMember-onlyBar Soap: A Love StoryTo all the suds I’ve loved before — It is a season of sodium salts and stinging, cracking hands. When the pandemic broke out, I was in Mexico City, where the streets smell of pork frying and lemon Fabuloso. Restaurants and cafés started filling empty bottles of liquid hand soap with that neon yellow elixir: half water, half…Sexuality5 min readSexuality5 min read
Published in Creators Hub·PinnedMember-onlyPassion Can Be PlatformWhy you should forget follower count and focus on joy, instead — A while ago, a good friend and fellow writer, Curtis texted me. “Well, it’s happening,” he wrote. “They’re making me do PLATFORM.” Curtis and I share a kick-ass editor at a major house, an intuitive woman who tries to let her writers concentrate on…Kiwi20215 min readKiwi20215 min read
PinnedMember-onlyWinter is coming, bish: Why things are about to get very, very real in your new country escape.The other night, I left my house to find our cat before the coyotes did and found my brand new neighbor standing in our driveway, instead. Without any preamble, she gestured to the three cords of wood we had meticulously split, seasoned, and stacked throughout the summer. Could she have…Homeownership8 min readHomeownership8 min read
Dec 16, 2021Member-onlyFast track to publication4 tips for aspiring authors — If there is a way to get a book published, I’ve tried it. To date, I have two books published with Penguin Random House (America’s largest publishing house), three books published with the independent presses Catapult and Tin House, a short story turned into an Audible Original on Amazon, a…Writing5 min readWriting5 min read
May 27, 2021Member-onlyEnter SandmanTen things that have helped me with insomnia Insomnia has plagued me since I was a child. As early as eight years of age, I used to wake up far earlier than my friends, unable to fall back asleep even though my body was exhausted. On nights when pals slept…Health6 min readHealth6 min read
May 24, 2021Member-onlyThe Great American (Unbought) NovelWhy are US consumers so slow to purchase books? — I watched something incredible happen the other day. I was having dinner at a friend’s house (thank you science and vaccination, for that meal) and he wanted to put on a movie for our two children to watch. Except that he did not have or own the movie that he…Consumer Behavior4 min readConsumer Behavior4 min read
May 19, 2021Member-onlySo You’re Thinking of Hiring an Outside Editor…Think before you Venmo — As one of my side hustles, I have a business called “The Query Doula” where I help writers prepare their manuscript openings and query letters for the agent query process. Most of the writers I’ve worked with come to me after having paid big bucks to an outside editor to…Money Management5 min readMoney Management5 min read
May 4, 2021Member-onlyPower in numbers: Why you shouldn’t lose your sh*t if someone’s publishing the same book as youAs with retinol products and heirloom vegetables, book publishing also follows market trends. Writers, after all, are natural-born observers, our cultural referees. It makes sense that the issues that fascinate and concern one writer would also interest someone else. Accordingly, there are publishing seasons in which it feels like everyone…Publishing4 min readPublishing4 min read
Published in Creators Hub·Apr 28, 2021Member-onlyHow to Read Like a Writer4 reading tips to improve your writing, stat — This story is behind Medium’s membership paywall, which means the writer earns through our Partner Program. To become a Medium member, click here. For the last year, I’ve been working nonstop with writers from outside of academia who want to be published authors. Here are two good things these creatives…Writing Tips4 min readWriting Tips4 min read
Apr 20, 2021Member-onlyWhy I’m Financing My Own Book Advance This Time AroundI’ve been sitting on an idea for a new novel for nearly seven years now. This idea, which would be my fourth novel if accepted for publication, will be a big novel that will require at least a year of research, which is another way of saying that it will…Writing Advice5 min readWriting Advice5 min read